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Posted:Sep 8, 2017 9:37 pm
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Sinday coffee 🙂
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Posted:Dec 9, 2018 11:18 am
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2018 9:10 pm 353 Views
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So the front porch is done and just requires some staining now! 
Slow n steady with the weight control, which is tough for someone that enjoys rich good soul food. Lol. But the results are pleasing to see.
But I did notice that my dark line has come back again, but that has been there since my teens. Yah hormone fluctuations. Lol
Once I get the ok from the physio to take up rigorous exercise again then I will be much happier with the 'toning'. For now its a modified pilates program...sure miss trail running though. 
Anyway, you do what you can with what you got, and you can't out train your diet....but sindays are for hashbrowns, bratwurst and eggs.
Its sinday on the farm, things to do, laundry and house cleaning... found a large steamer trunk that I will add some cedar planks then turn into my toy box. Then I have my kitchen cabinets to finish up.
Sexy bloggers,
How is your day going?
Do anything exciting?? Hot dates? Meet anyone exciting? Any date at all? 
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New dress 😁
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Posted:Dec 7, 2018 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2018 7:09 am 752 Views
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It's party night and I always dress to impress. Lol.
I do clean up well once the steel toes come off.
Enjoy the evening, the food should be good!
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Thirsty Thursday in the badlands
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Posted:Dec 6, 2018 5:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2018 11:11 am 706 Views
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Try again...
A hot date with a whole night of sensual and pleasurable sex would be soooo awesome right now.
But I bet I would want more sex after that because once the pent up flood gate is opened... I would end up even more frustrated! 
Trying so very hard to keep those gates closed until I can find someone....
But ya, horny, frustrated, the badlands needs more ice cream. Lol
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Pre hump day post..
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Posted:Dec 4, 2018 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2018 10:02 am 960 Views
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And because I'm still hella bored and needing some stimulating conversation, laughs or just a bottle of wine, whatevers..
I was thinkin out loud this afternoon on my commute home and:
Sex life soo dry...
That the hitchhikers start to look like this:
Well over 2 years and only having sex 3 times, (yikes I know)
a few meet ups a few years ago but they had a plethora of excuses as to why the boner didn't work ... or they came soo quick that it doesn't even count,
or they blamed me for being too hot or (usually) not hot enough,
or they degrade you the minute they are done...
The point is that I'm Not wondering if the hitchhiker is going to be a killer,
I'm just wondering if he can get a boner,
would he degrade me or humiliate me for enjoying sex,
would he at least last long enough to get a condom on.... but being an axe murderer doesnt even cross my mind. Lol
Yah, that's a lame attempt at humor tonight, but seriously I have checked out hitchhikers before and wondered if they would put out for a ride somewhere. If he would be offended if I asked him to rub my clit to orgasm..
Especially when the dates are bottom of the barrel, how much worse could a hiker be besides unwashed...
But then the hikers usually look like pugsley adams but when one is hot horny and craving excitement they start to look like the cowboy! 
Oh, sure theres some law about picking up men ... but this is just a story. Lol
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Late Sinday thoughts
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Posted:Dec 2, 2018 7:25 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2018 6:54 pm 1152 Views
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Better late than never
Was a busy day on the farm with helping the bro with his firewood loads. And he cuts BIG firewood logs 😲 I'm kinda tuckered out. Lol. Felt like 4hrs of crossfit.
But apart from that I was browsing some hot looking photos on the kink site and come across this one:
Now that would be nice deep and hot, definitely squirty orgasms at that angle.
There are some positions that I find hotter than others, but its rare to find men adventurous enough to try new things.
There are many positions that are great to do with the right guy, especially because they involve him actually touching you vs him just touching you with his cock. Lol. I quite enjoy the sensual sex when his whole body is close to mine, you can feel the heat from him, feel his breathe on your neck, ...
Hm, Mind you a sensual massage before sex would be awesome right about now!
Yes yes I know this is the wrong site to find primal hot passionate sex, hence why I don't search on here anymore. On here its just a 5 min nsa hookup amd nothing more.
So yep, still searching for those men with the same sexual interests as me.
Anyhoo,
Shower time and then a early bedtime.
While I get to dream about hot sex, I hope your weekend was sexier than mine!
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Thirsty Thursday...
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Posted:Nov 29, 2018 1:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2018 7:39 am 1587 Views
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And when you run out of things to ponder then show a nudie pic.
Anyway, tales from the dating site trenches...
I don't show a face pic on my dating profiles because of the shallowness of the whole online thing. Yes yes I know it cuts my 'chances' by at least 75% because men want pretty faces and thin bodies before they will stop and skim a profile. But it should be obvious by now that I like words, though interestingly enough I not a chatty cathy type in real life.
And then, back to face pics, one thing I learned was if he wants to see a face pic before any sort of convo then he's not looking for me. And when he continues to pester for a pic stating he isnt the 'shallow type', I just roll my eyes, send him a pic, then count the seconds to him ghosting. Lol. So much for " not shallow!".
It has happened soo many times now that I just dont even bother sending a pic and just ignore any contact from those that demand or want to see a face pic now. Whatevers, it is what it is, men want the top 10% of the beauty lotto winners. Lol.
Anyhoo, and then,
Content of profiles Does it really matter the content when the menfolk are just looking for the words 'dtf' or 'nsa only'.
Ya, readjusting my afternoon schedule to work through the snow that wasnt supposed to come till tonight. 
Sexy bloggers,
when it comes to profiles on dating sites, or even this site (as many "claim" to not be on standard dating sites),
Are you looking for photos or content?
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Post Sinday 🤔 TW for sensitive types
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Posted:Nov 26, 2018 10:55 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2018 11:58 am 1826 Views
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If you are the type that believe all you need is a cock then this writing is not for you today. Enjoy your day and come back later for nudes.
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It was a busy weekend and even though I was thinkin about writing something, I just couldn't get into the flow of it because life got in the way.
But lets see
We are all adults here and ghosting is just ridiculous...but I do understand why some do it but some are just taking the easy way out.
Some really don't know how communication works, and they don't understand the concept of adult relationships especially casual partners. (And you wonder why women look for relationships after doing time with casual sex). Just because I dont require a fulltime monogamous live in relationship doesn't mean I am disposable with no feelings.
I do not pursue or chase, but I will follow up with one or two messages and if theres no/limited response then you end up in the Z pile at the bottom of my contacts. I know from experience that men want hot women to pursue, not the average woman. I know from being publicly humiliated that men prefer the very attractive to hit on him.
Men beat thier chest and holler around about 'why dont you wimmens just do sex!' ...but if lessons learned taught me that you think soo poorly of me as a person, that eventually I am forced to look for a 'real relationship' just to be treated as a human.
Anyway,
there are also those that want to meet, then disappear, then re-appear in the hopes of picking up where you left off. The reappearance could be months or years later, but yanno what, you have already proven to me that you are flighty and unreliable, plus you see me as a 'last resort' or last choice ... at any rate I was not very high on your list. And now you have burned through the hot wimmen you end up back at me.
Lets back up a moment though, many may think that I am not paying attention to you or you may think that #allWimmens are ditzy, BUT I will take note of everything from the way you chat at me and with me, to meeting up the first time and the way you look at me, the tone in your voice, they way you pay attention to what I say, the way your eyes look around the room....fuckin everything I will have noticed in the first few mins and through the duration. Then I will also note any follow up or lack of.
If you ghost then come back, then it's a start from the beginning but you now have dropped way down my priority list.
The same goes for the way you message me initially claiming to be interested, then you disappear, then show up in my inbox months or years later trying to pick up where we left off. Nadda, that just reset the whole process, tedious as fuck I know, but like I mentioned above, I wasn't any sort of priority before and I know how you will treat me in the future.
Lets just say that I have learned my lesson with your type years ago, I have painstakingly worked my way thru why I was always being used as the practice gf or rebound chick (because im easy going and sexually open). And men just never put any priority on me because I am low pressure and not the attractive one, ie:men use women like me.
So yep, my luck sucks but that doesn't mean I will drop all my self esteem and self worth to be treated like a fleshlight at your convenience.
That's great that you reached to bottom of the barrel again and found me, but you know what ... my dildos are better company.
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'Looking for fun'
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Posted:Nov 23, 2018 10:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2018 9:27 am 2267 Views
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Lol...yes I have covered this topic before a few times over, but its fun to beat the you know what.
Lala's favorite fun word also! Yanno "fun".
'Looking for fun'
That little set of words is vag-drier-upper for this cat,
But why miss flower¿!?
Why is it such a vag clencher?
Well in my experience it rarely had anything to do with me also having a good time. Believe me I have met with these types just for the sake of flower sciences...because I can't reallyyyy write about stuffs that I have not experienced first hand, or both hands...maybe just my right hand. Also why I have a tough time writing about erotica that I havent done yet.
Ok anyway,
For shits n giggles I have met with penis centered men (yanno the penis pic profiles), I have met with recently divorced/separated men, I have met with older and ....and so on.
All in the hopes of giving the benefit of the doubt and finding that compatible man in a minefield of the "just lookin". Because y'all keep saying you will find him if you just meet anyone, and he will show up when not looking, and he will be found when you least expect. Did I cover them all?
Anyhoo,
Im hella bored today, my mind is busy with my to-do list and my frustration level is building with other things in life.
But I had to chuckle the other night that I recall rubbing one out when I was half asleep, and it was to some primal hot doggy style with a tall lanky man whose body I could feel cover mine, his arm wrapped around my body, feel his breathe on my neck.........then I realised that my blankets where getting hot (winter covers are heavier than summer blankies) thus feeding my wet dream. Lol
Like I have stated before that I have been having to control my masturbation and sex fantasies - but it was fuckin hot to remember that I'm still alive and having sexual thoughts.
Lookin for fun
Can you please clarify what you mean by that?
Because my idea of fun would a great date out with someone interesting and who was genuinely interested in me.
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Hump day flirting
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Posted:Nov 21, 2018 7:23 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2018 3:10 pm 2795 Views
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Well, historical flirting but it was still funny.
I have on occasion had good casual partners because we all know how difficult it is to find men open to ongoing, so you try and enjoy it as long as you can.
Which I have held onto shitty guys that were good at sex because finding new casual partners is frustrating at best and having sex with new guys rarely works out as mutual pleasure....  yep I get it that you need to have sex with them in order to see if they are any good. But I'm certainly under the impression that they purposely do sex badly so they don't get a call back.
Anyway,
Dating in the trenches and seeing the bottom of the barrel, looking in the pond and wondering why there isn't more fish , pondering the thoughts about 'where are allllll those single men that people claim are out there'
But then it is hump day and I'm thinkin about the stuffs to do this wknd...
Like replacing my front steps and moving the cabinets around the kitchen.
I check out the dating site a couple of times a week but its the same faces as last time, mainly fuckboys or trophy hunters or not compatible.
Yikes, where was I
Oh ya, horny, craving skin contact, desiring a good date. Lol
I should be clear though, I search the men under 52 years old. Actually my age range on 3 sites is 26 to 52, so its not like im searching 41-48. Lol
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